My boyfriend and I got quite drunk on New Years and ended up having sex. The thing I’m worried about is I’m not on the pill, but I’m pretty sure we used a condom. Pretty sure being the key words. Regardless if we use a condom (almost always) or not, he always pulls out before he comes. This night in question, he doesn’t remember he if came at all, and I don’t remember if we actually used a condom.
I know this sounds extremely stupid of me, but now I’m paranoid that he came in me without a condom on. I am now experiencing excess mucus-y white vaginal discharge that doesn’t itch or burn or anything like that and has a slight odor, but my vagina is also EXTREMELY tight. As in it is hard to put my index finger inside myself.
I don’t know how vagina’s normally react after semen has entered it, but I’ve convinced myself that (here comes the moronic sounding part) my vagina got really tight in order to keep the semen in, and the excess discharge is the semen seeping out. I’m not due to have my period of another week, so I’m just trying to find out as much as I can so I can calm myself down a bit 
Any and all advice would be very much appreciated.
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consult with your local shaman or medicine man. I am afraid this is the only option left.
sounds like u were very fertile at the time. this would not be the first or last baby from alcohol ,advice, dont drink and screw
I would think that the vaginal excess is your body preparing for either a thickened wall lining that could be early preparation for a pregnancy OR your body is just getting ready for the next period. Since neither of you can recall what happened then you have to either wait and see or take a home pregnancy test kit. Ironically I saw one at the dollar tree at the check out the other day for a dollar. I’d get the kind that has the yes or no though as the + or – is too iffy to read accurately and I’d make sure to do that test in the first pee of the day as that is the most concentrated and most accurate. EVEN IF your bf pulls out before he cums there is STILL sperm that can leak out prior to release and that is not safe to take the risk of either way. If you don’t find yourself pregnant now I’d use a condom to avoid those risks you are taking in this otherwise now. It’s just too much a roulette risk.
Your vagina actually may be tightened as you are stressed and tense just in what might be now. Once you get the result you are seeking, either way, you can relax and find that loosens up also.
While I’m really not sure and definitely not a doctor, I do have one idea…
Perhaps the sex was a bit more rough than usual that night (which is entirely possible if you were drunk) and as a result your vagina is swollen. Swelling could make it feel tighter/make it harder to insert things into it.
I’m pretty sure vaginas don’t tighten to hold in semen. Hope this puts your mind at ease a little!
It sounds like you may have an STI. Have you and your boyfriend ever been checked before?
It also could simply just be a yeast infection which is what it sounds like to me which is easily treatable with a prescribed cream from the doctor. Excess discharge with an odour is one of the most common symptoms of a yeast infection.
The extremely tight part can be a result of rough sex, or too much friction during sex. Friction burn can cause it to be sore when entering a finger/tampon into your vagina. This should pass in a few days just refrain from sexual contact and have a few hot baths!
You said about him pulling out before he cums. You do know that there is such thing as pre-cum which contains almost the same amount of sperm as cum. Pre-cum happens when the man is excited and he won’t feel it happening. You CAN get pregnant from pre-cum, in fact my sister did. Just in case you didn’t know
So if you don’t want to be pregnant I recommend always using condoms or a method of birth control.
Hope this helps x
wow you are dumb
My guess is that you aren’t tight, but rather sore making it hard to insert a finger. The vagina doesn’t react to semen that way.
Your own natural lube (charge) increases when you are sexually aroused and will come out later as the vagina is self-cleaning. If it’s runny and smells funny (different than usually as all people have their own musky scent including guys) then it very well could be semen. It takes a few days for the semen to be flushed from your vagina.
If you expect your period in 7 days or less, you are probably not pregnant as most of us do not ovulate that late in our cycle (key word most of us) so if you are really concerned, take Plan B.
Sometimes thrush can make you really tight and give you excess fluids, sometimes even lumpy.
But it also comes with an itch or a burn.
Also, this could be the vagina repairing itself. Being drunk, sometimes you don’t realise how hard you’re doing it.
Everyone makes mistakes. Don’t let these people tell you what you already know. You know it was a silly thing to do and obviously you’re going to learn from it.
Try a pregnancy test. It will 100% put your mind at rest if you miss your period. But stressing about your period is going to delay it, which is going to make things worse.
Hope things work out good for you. x
Ok well first of all, the pull and pray method DOESN’T WORK. There is this thing called precum that all guys have BEFORE they ever ejaculate and there is sperm in that precum and all it takes is one little sperm to get pregnant. So pulling out DOES NOT work!!! I can’t stand the fact that people in this day and age still think that works.. ugh anyway… The discharge sounds like your vagina is either cleaning itself because it does seem like he came inside you. The tightness seems like you are just nervous or something and aren’t relaxing your muscles down there. Since you are on the pill, if you take it on time, every day, like you should, then I would say you most likely are not pregnant. Good luck.